If you are intimidated to approach myself or other professional dominatrixes for a session, this is for you. Whether it’s fear or anxiety holding you back, be assured that the process isn’t as scary as it seems. My first piece of advice to submissives that yearn for the dominant touch of a professional dominatrix is to be honest with yourself. Be honest about your desires, your triggers and fears, and what you hope to learn and explore in sessions. There should be a process of self-reflection and self-awareness to shape yourself into the type of submissive that a professional dominatrix would accept and enjoy playing with.
The next step you should take is research, research, research. Not every professional dominatrix will be the one that you are looking for, so it is up to you to research who you would feel would be the best fit for your submission style. Whether you are a masochist, a fetishist, or a beginner, it is important for you to research the dominatrixes that embody the qualities you are looking for. After, visit their website and social media pages to learn more about their individual kinks, domination style, and expectations. All dominatrices will have information about how they like to be approached, what they expect of potential submissives, and their personal policies. Be sure to pay strict attention to prove that you are the considerate, respectful, and thoughtful submissive that they would enjoy playing with.
Personally, I expect potential submissives to read through my website thoroughly to learn the basics about me. Be sure to read my session policies thoroughly as these will answer most of the questions submissives have about booking a session. The application form on my website is the only way that I consider those who would like to book a session with me. Your answers should be thorough, thoughtful, and honest. This is the initial vetting process that indicates to me whether we would be a good match. If you would like to get to know me on a more personal level before a session, reach out to me through one of my paid sites (NiteFlirt, PremiumChat, LoyalFans) or send a tribute to my Venmo or Cashapp before emailing any inquires to my email GoddessIvyX@proton.me. Those who are generous with their tributes will be prioritized. After you have done your due diligence and are kneeling before me, let your worries, anxieties, and fears go and succumb to my power.
As a special treat to those who subscribe to my substack and apply after reading this post, for the remainder of march, I will be offering $100 off sessions to those booking their first session with me.